Blogs and Podcasts
Blogs and Podcasts
Podcasts
Brighter Outlook Counselling’s Podcast Series On Narcissistic Abuse
5 Ways the Covert Narcissist Blameshifts
Blame shifting is a core manipulation tactic narcissists use to dodge responsibility and control others. This article explores five common ways narcissists shift blame—through criticism deflection, twisted conversations, gaslighting, false comparisons, and emotional guilt trips. These patterns leave victims confused and anxious. By understanding these behaviours, you can start to reclaim your clarity, confidence, and emotional well-being.
Navigating the Complex Relationship Between Daughters and Narcissistic Mothers
Daughters of narcissistic mothers endure profound emotional pain due to manipulation and conditional love. This blog explores the toxic dynamics at play, such as covert smear campaigns and the damaging cycle of seeking approval. It provides guidance on setting boundaries, overcoming guilt, and seeking therapy to heal. Understanding these challenges and taking steps to break free is essential for reclaiming self-worth and moving toward a healthier future.
Why Narcissists Don’t Care About Evidence
Confronting a narcissist with evidence often leads to denial, deflection, and manipulation, as they refuse to take accountability. This blog explains why narcissists don’t care about proof and how their tactics, like gaslighting and blame-shifting, create confusion and erode self-esteem. Understanding these behaviors is crucial for victims to navigate the emotional toll of narcissistic abuse and recognize the futility of expecting change. Ultimately, walking away is the best solution to escape the toxic cycle.
Why Do Narcissists Come Back?
Narcissists often return to regain control, using tactics like the Hoover maneuver to pull you back into their toxic cycle. This blog explores why they come back, the impact of trauma bonds, and the importance of blocking them on all platforms. Understanding their manipulation can help you resist re-engagement and prioritize your healing. Stay vigilant and focus on your well-being to break free from their control for good.
Understanding the Struggles of Adult Children of Narcissists
Adult children of narcissists face deep emotional wounds due to lifelong manipulation. This article explores the roles narcissistic parents impose on their children, such as the golden child or scapegoat, and the emotional burdens of fear, obligation, and guilt. It also discusses the deceptive tactics of narcissistic parents, the isolation and trauma bonds they create, and offers guidance on breaking free, setting boundaries, and healing through support and acceptance.
The Fear of a Narcissist Treating the Next Person Better
Victims of narcissistic abuse often fear the abuser will treat the next partner better, believing they were at fault. This fear stems from trauma, manipulation, and conditioning. Understanding this cycle is crucial for healing, focusing on self-care, and rebuilding self-worth.
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